Jen Pollock Michel: The Misguided Theology of Kindness

Does this go against your theology? See what you think.

Saunders suggests we cure selfishness to attain to the The Misguided Theology of Kindnessmeasure of kindness. We medicate ourselves with art, education, prayer, meditation, and friendship. We abandon the notion that “we are central to the universe.” We fight our Darwinian “built-in confusions,” which “cause us to preference our own needs over the needs of others.” When selfishness is strangled, kindness will flourish.

There is some inherent biblical wisdom in these words. Despite our reflexive megalomania, we are not central to the universe: “In the beginning, God,” Scripture begins—as if anticipating the reminder we would need. Furthermore, the Apostle Paul describes well our “built-in confusions” in Romans 7:15: “For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate.” And finally, Jesus Christ serves as the example that each of us must look “not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others,” (Phil. 2:4).

We Christians hold this much in common with Saunders. However, we could not agree with him that our greatest virtue is kindness and our greatest vice selfishness—at least not as he defines them.

To make kindness into an ultimate virtue is to insist that our most important moral obligations are those we owe are to our fellow human beings. Under Saunders’s assumptions, the only plane of human behavior with moral import is the horizontal one: neighbor to neighbor. Sin is exclusively defined as the harm we do to one another.