
What a great story for the Advent Season! For those with ears to hear, listen and understand.
Empathy is under attack lately.
The all-important ability to see the world through another person’s eyes is now being recast as something corrosive.
The argument goes like this: if you’re empathetic, you’re being manipulated into accepting all manner of ideas, behaviors or policies that you would otherwise reject. Empathy, in this view, is a Trojan horse for weakness.
But that’s a dangerous distortion.
True empathy is not agreement. And it’s definitely not surrender.
It’s the refusal to reduce another person to a caricature. It recognizes that the people we disagree with have reasons for their choices. And people are intrinsically valuable, even if we’re on opposite sides.
Far from weakening conviction, empathy actually strengthens it by grounding our beliefs in humanity, not hatred.
A story from World War II illustrates this. It reminds us that even in our darkest moments, empathy must triumph.
On Dec. 20, 1943, in the frenzied skies above war-torn Europe, two bitter enemies met in what remains one of World War II’s most remarkable encounters.
An American B-17 bomber, piloted by 21-year-old West Virginian Charles Brown, was shredded by enemy fire. Bullets had torn through the fuselage. Several crew members were bleeding out. The plane was barely holding together, yet still in the air.
Flying nearby was the enemy: Franz Stigler, 28, a veteran German fighter ace. His job was simple: blow the Americans out of the sky.
Stigler had every incentive to pull the trigger.
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